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Find Stillness In Between 🦋

divorce coaching Mar 12, 2024

Am I Chinese or Canadian?
Employee or entrepreneur?
Communicator or coach?

Lying in bed,
Turning around,
Staring at the ceiling,
Shivering,
Panicking,
Ruminating,
Questioning.

Can I make this new life on my own? 

Physically,
Mentally,
Financially.
The list goes on…

Pause, pause, pause.
Stop doing,
Start breathing.

What if I am in between?

In between Chinese and Canadian, employee and entrepreneur, communicator and coach…and more…

What if instead of waiting,
Anxious,
Frustrated,
Impatient,

Or resisting,
Angry,
Fearful,
Stressed,

Feeling trapped in the never-ending mental loop, hoping the other party to move.

What if we choose allowing?

Allow ourselves to be in between,
Open,
Flexible,
Expansive,
Playful…

Now, take a deep breath,

Feel the energy of allowing.

How liberating!

Are you in between?

Separating from the old,
Entering the unknown,
Transforming to the new.

Oh, the agony of change.

Pause,
Breathe,
And

Embrace.

Because there is stillness in between.

Trust,
There is beauty on the other side.
Trust,
There is peace.
Trust,
You are exactly where you are supposed to be.